A Letter To A Friend Disappointed In Love
Saturday March 18th 2006
You can not change her or anyone else. You can change you. By clearing your conscience and feeling at peace with yourself and those around you, you will open your eyes and learn to be real.
Then no little girl will take you for a ride. Then you will be someone people look up to in the world – because you will be at peace with yourself and, therefore, your actions will be real and consistent.
Life is simple, really simple. You decide to do the right things or the wrong things. Then you do them. Whatever you do becomes habitual and you don’?t think about it any more. But you can think about it and change things. This is only by counting to ten, thinking, and then responding out of choice rather than reacting which is always habitual.
Tom, you are a lovely guy with lots of energy and bright ideas. When you are at peace with yourself, you will be in a place to form an adult working relationship with a woman. The sooner you decide to grow up the sooner you will get your dreams.